Don't take a lifetime to appreciate those who are by your side, don't take a lifetime in the bath of pride and self-defense to adapt to those who share their soul with you...
Remember that every time we take responsibility for having someone in life, it is also taking responsibility for caring and not devaluing the partner's needs, and two happy and fulfilled people will always give equal value to a happy home.
A relationship is a fragile plant that needs to be cared for and cherished, and as much as you've had bad gardening experiences in the past, the resentment and past traumas transferred to this flower will only get in the way of a beautiful bloom and reduce the potential of the true gods nectar... Sharing pain is not the same as imprinting it on the relationship, because we all bring baggage and we will all fail if we release demons where they shouldn't be... Their place is in the past... That's why it's so important to take good care of our garden before having a relationship, so that the land is fertile, we must work on ourselves first...
Don't waste time when you know the path of reason, your effort will be equal to your results...
Show your partner that you care, how you want to be loved and learn how to love, learn how to reach the heart, and don't wait for the hill of disillusionment to do what you could have done when the hills were still in bloom...
What you put in effort and dedication will always be what you get, don't expect perfection in a garden you forgot to take care of...
In a world of transformation, recycle your being, improve the version of you, because when two people assume themselves as gardeners of such a fragile and dependent flower garden, nothing they invest is less than what they should do....
